A frequent visitor of the computer lab that I talk to a lot came to me with a new phrase that she just learned. “Big Daddy” I instantly said “oh lawd” and she asked me if she should use it with her boyfriend. I told her feel free, a lot of men like that shit. I get called that all the time by someone I know I don’t get a big head about it. Since she was Puerto Rican I kept telling her continue with ‘Papi’ as well; we like that shit too like Chris Rock said before “No man can resist Papi!” and it sometimes builds up our egos. Especially during sex (why lie?). I know a few women will disagree with calling their significant other a pet name like that and I understand insecurity can do that to you. On the flipside what’s the perfect pet name to use in a lady case? Big momma? I guess as a man it’s as long as you don’t offend; besides it’s the tone of the voice that seals the deal